My wedding reception turns out...

Be a going to be married man, theoretically, I should be very happy, because it is the time when I ‘officially’ together with the one in my life – Yvonne. Well, married is all about 2 person, isn’t it? WE plan for the reception, WE list down who are the guests, WE chose the dishes to be served during reception, WE want something different (something that comes out by US) and hope this could turn out to be a unique/memorable reception to everyone who participates in it.

In fact, till now, WE enjoy the process of cracking head, what to serve, who to invite all etc. We had arguments during discussion, but resolved. But then somehow, there are people who over concern about our married interfere our planning.

The question sort of, why must you have an extra reception for friends. It is better to combine everything in one. Is your wedding album ready? These nonsense posted to Yvonne, she could note take it, did not mention a single word to me, try to accommodate the person who over concern and me, hide everything to me… at the end she cry. She cries every time when she thinks about all these. A bride-to-be person should feel happy and fortune, not dropping tears each time when mention about the reception. There are more torturing incidents happened to us, I shall not mention here.

Now, here, I would like to clarify a few things (just in case you are invited to my wedding reception):

- This is not a traditional wedding dinner. You will only meet guests from my generation. So, you can do/plan/whatever to trick ME during the reception. No rules and regulations apply.

- The will be not wedding album for the moment of time, but WE promise, we shall present to you our very own wedding photos/video collection in ‘soft’ way.

- Yvonne and I plan for the reception, but guests are the one who decide the fate of the reception.

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Q&A

Why you make your wedding so complicated?
- The person who makes the wedding complicated not me! The restaurant, artists, jewelry shop make it this way. Who tells you to person married must have wedding dinner, who tells you the bride and groom must in costume? Who tells you bride and groom must exchange rings? Who tells you a couple must take wedding photos when they get married? Think about it. At the end, who are the beneficial? The people who collect YOUR red packet and my money are the beneficial!

Why you have two receptions?
- Basically, WE just would like to separate the guests from two generations. WE would like to have fun with OUR friends, WE want to spend more time with YOU! Do you think WE will have chance to be crazy/talk to you when your father and my father’s generation guests are there?

What can I do during the reception?
- No rules and regulations apply, just do what you feel is cool~

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Ultimately, I just would like to have a great reception with my guests!